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Should I Tell Him I Cheated? Print E-mail
Written by Max, on 05-18-2009

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Should I tell my boyfriend that I had had sex with another guy? I feel very, very bad and want to tell him everything, but I am afraid I will lose him. What should I do, Max? Please give me some advice!

ANSWER:
What kind of relation do you have with your boyfriend? Are you going to be screwing around with other guys while you are with him? Are you going to be faithful from now on? Is he faithful to you?  How is he going to react when you tell him you did have sex with someone else?  If you are both in a monogamous relationship, I am sure he will probably be very angry when you tell him you slept with someone else. He may be so angry he may not want to see you anymore. So it is up to you.  If you learned your lesson and will never do it again, you may want to keep it to yourself, but will you able to continue your relationship without feeling guilty?  Only you know how you are going to feel and how your boyfriend will react.  Sometimes, a mistake can teach us a lot of things about ourselves and about our relationships.  Unfortunately, there is always a price to pay. Good luck!

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Posted by richie, on 08-02-2009,
1. mine did to and told me
My boy friend cheated on me also--instead of getting mad--I asked him why-after all it is his life to---we had a great conversation about it and --i realized that our realationship was not all about me--he was afraid to be open with me and said I was cold--i realized immediatly that i had been very controling and was hard for him to talk to me about anything -I realized that my behavior was giving him second thoughts about our realation ship--this was 10 years ago we are still together--I feel like an ass--i almost lost him--communication was our key--we talk about everything I Love him more
 
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Posted by Scott, on 06-08-2009,
2. You Should
You should tell you boyfriend u cheated if not for honesty but to free the guilt you are feeling.You never know he might suprise you and want to work things out :)
 
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Posted by Jep, on 05-20-2009,
3. Shame on you
If you and your boyfriend have an open relationship, then you have nothing to worry about but if you are supposed to be monogamous, then you might be in for BIG trouble. Stand up, be a man, have the stones to admit when you've done something wrong and take the punches. You never know.
 
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