Hi Max, I need some help. Me and my best friend live together. One day he came out and asked me if I was gay. And, I told him yes. We sleep in the same bed with each other. Two days passed and then he started to walk around the house naked. And sleeping in the same bed with me naked, keep in mind he is straight. I was taking a shower one day and he just walked right on it and started taking one too. He asked me why don't we walk around the house naked. I've always wanted to be with him so bad it hurts, but I don't want to loose him as a friend. So we now walk around the house naked. He started wanting me to watch him have sex with girls he brings home he wanted to watch me have sex with men I bring home. Some times when we are in bed at night, he would get right next to me and put his arm around me and he would go to sleep. We do not have sex and we do not touch each other. But we do everything else together. So I need help to find out if he is just showing that he wants me but to scared to tell me or what. I have asked him if he is bi or what and he tells me that he doesn't want to have sex with a man, but he just likes seeing me naked as long as there's no touching involved. Please help me understand.
ANSWER:
He said it best... he likes to watch but not touch. So if you are an exhibitionist, he will be perfect for you. However, if you want more than that, this guy is going to hurt you. He is just out to have fun and the problem is that you are falling for him. If you continue to hope that he will fall for you, you will wait forever. Find someone who is really into you and who really wants to touch you the way you deserve to be touched. Then, you can invite your friend and he can watch because that's all he is good for. Good luck !
Im bisexual and I was having sex with a women I knew well and also know her Husband. I always thought they were the most happy couple in the World. One night I was having sex with her and I got this weird feeling that someone was watching me. Sure enough I saw the drapes moving and even though I didn't see him I know it was her Husband. Fortunately I climaxed and I quickly got up and left as I did not know how he was going to react. He is a Big Dude and would manhandle me easy. What makes guys like this Tick? Was he more turned on by Her or Me? Secretly he turns me on but im too shy!