BGay.com Wellness & Health - My Partner Is Turning Into a Top

Wellness Home

My Partner Is Turning Into a Top

Written by Max, on 10-20-2008

I am a very sexual top, and me and my partner have been together for a year and a half. In the beginning he seemed to be a happy bottom, but more and more he has wanted to top me. I really hate this but I have done it for him because I love him. He says he still loves me toping him but it really doesn't feel like it. He normally is limp when I top him. I feel more and more empty each and every time we have sex. I don't want to leave but I feel like we are at a dead end. What should I do?

ANSWER:

I think you should talk to him. Tell him how you feel sexually and try to find a solution. If he does not want to be a bottom anymore, find a way that you both can enjoy each other sexually. Some people use their legs to fake penetration or some part of their bodies. There are a lot of toys that you can use so you can both enjoy sexual activities. Be creative, have fun and most of all be safe!

Last update: 10-22-2008