Does anal sex hurt the first time?

Well i want tp try it out but im scared it is gonna hurt so much. i've tried to do it before but to scared of it hurting. So my question is will it hurt? and if it does will the pain go away while doing it? and im a girl

okay most ppl say dat sex hurts well it does at 1st ecspecially if your partner is rushing it when mine did that i felt like almost crying but afterwards it started to feel really good!!!!but if you dnt kno whar your doing then you can be in trouble but sex is sex but fingering yo self in da ass is kinda gross but whatever you do have fun

[cantfoolthewise]

Sex is all in mind, but let's face it the anus was not made for sex it was made for exit only. Excessive anal sex can expose you to anal cancer and anal incontinence.

I consider myself a straight male due to the fact that I don't find the male form attractive. I am curious as to what it would feel like to have a cock in my ass. I have tried a butt plug and it was a nice sensation which only made me want to try the real thing more but I just dont find men attractive, I think if I went with a guy I wouldn't be turned on enough to want it.

The worst part of it is I have a girlfriend who I love but she doesn't like the idea of a strapon so what can I do? I must do it before I die lol! I have thought about a transexual escort as in my mind this is just a woman who has a penis.