RE: How can I have longer sex sessions?

[pride7]

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This is another question in which only "spirituality" can "solve." There is no direct answer to this question.

Buddhism does offer an answer to this question of having longer sex and with much more control over your body, by using your psychic energies and mind over matter.

I don't know much about the theories and don't remember enough of them to share with you. If u want to explore how to have longer sex, then i would suggest exploring books about buddhism and sex, spirituality etc.

Best Wishes

[spreadeagle]

Hey,

The way to have longer sex sessions is to take your time.

Instead of making cumming your goal you need to explore ways of delaying it as long as possible. If you're on your own this means that you stop stroking and switch to another activity like nip-tweaking or ass-tickling - something that keeps you turned on but isn't going to tip you over the edge. You need to learn to recognise that 'point-of-no-return' so that when you feel it coming you can take evasive action. One technique is to spread out three fingers of one hand along the root of your dick where it runs from behind your ballsack towards your ass hole and press in firmly, with the other hand you squeeze your piss slit tight shut. If you co-ordinate this in time it stops your juice shooting. If not, you get a handful of cum.

Generally, you should be bringing more of your body into your jack-off routines, using your hands to stroke yourself all over and getting up off the bed to dance naked to some beaty music. If you want to draw it out you need to allow enough time for it - at least half-an-hour. If you start jacking when the school bus is gonna leave in five minutes it aint gonna work.

With a partner you use the same approach. It's easiest if you take turns getting each other going and if you keep communicating. Lie back and let him love you till you feel the big O approaching. Then you swap places and you get him worked up till he's moaning out loud and ready to shoot. Then you stop and your buddy takes you to the edge once more. An hour of this and when you let yourself cum you won't know what's hit you.

The other thing is, remember to keep breathing. To prolong your session you need to keep the energy circulating throughout your body.There are two main breathing techniques to use. One is long relaxed breaths in, and then letting the air flow out by itself at its own rate while you focus on the sensations in your body. The second method is rapid throat panting; this is useful when the feelings are getting really intense and you want to keep yourself hovering at that pitch. Breath-holding (and other auto-asphyxiation techniques) create oxygen deficit which stresses the body and tends to short-circuit the pleasure explosively. The more you breathe, the more you can feel in your body and the more intense the pleasure.

Hope this helps
Cheers
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