spreadeagle
April 29th, 2004, 05:06 AM
Your question sparks off a lot of possibilities. Yes – it’s okay to masturbate and cum every day. It’s also okay not to. Like so much else in life, you need to make your choice based on what‘s appropriate for you, not by comparison with what other people are doing.
Maybe you’re feeling some fear or guilt around j/o. Check out <www.jackinworld.com>. If you think you’re jacking too much then decide to go for a week without and watch your reaction; you’ll be able to gauge the strength of your desire. Even Christian sites advise that it is pointless to try and stop anyone from masturbating.
At first, jacking is like a new toy and you can’t get enough of it. Later on you become more sophisticated. You learn that short periods of abstinence are great because the pleasure and release when you DO stroke again is that much more intense.
You might like to think about the distinction between orgasm and ejaculation. Some people believe that jacking and spilling your juice wastes your vital forces. Instead of spurting you can learn to draw that energy back up inside. If that interests you then type <kundalini> or <tantric sex> into your search engine and see what you can find.
Since we’re all going to be wanking, with greater or lesser frequency, throughout the whole of our sexually active lives then we may as well get expert at it. Mate, lie back and go for it! You have my blessing.
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Maybe you’re feeling some fear or guilt around j/o. Check out <www.jackinworld.com>. If you think you’re jacking too much then decide to go for a week without and watch your reaction; you’ll be able to gauge the strength of your desire. Even Christian sites advise that it is pointless to try and stop anyone from masturbating.
At first, jacking is like a new toy and you can’t get enough of it. Later on you become more sophisticated. You learn that short periods of abstinence are great because the pleasure and release when you DO stroke again is that much more intense.
You might like to think about the distinction between orgasm and ejaculation. Some people believe that jacking and spilling your juice wastes your vital forces. Instead of spurting you can learn to draw that energy back up inside. If that interests you then type <kundalini> or <tantric sex> into your search engine and see what you can find.
Since we’re all going to be wanking, with greater or lesser frequency, throughout the whole of our sexually active lives then we may as well get expert at it. Mate, lie back and go for it! You have my blessing.
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