spreadeagle
April 17th, 2004, 07:11 PM
Hey sweet guy
Because of the atmosphere of narrow-mindedness and fear inherent in the societies into which they are born, Gaymen have often found it necessary to leave home in search of other communities where they can feel accepted and loved. Naturally they gravitate towards cities and by doing so they greatly increase their chances of finding an appropriate partner.
Many men are attracted to others of different ethnicity; there is a strong erotic charge in making love with a man whose physical characteristics and cultural background are markedly different from your own. However, you need to be aware of the risk of making a fetish of the other guys skin colour. Sometimes you fixate so strongly on your feverish, clichèd eroticisation of his race, that you stop seeing his individuality and, ultimately, this leads to a sterile relationship; you haven’t left enough room for love to grow.
Focusing on your love-life from the perspective of lack or insufficiency will not help the lover you desire manifest in your life. Neediness is not attractive, and since you are naturally shy it is possibly not a good look when you have to make all the running yourself. You show a good awareness of your own positive qualities, so commit some energy to developing these and to pursuing other areas of interest in your life. Living a rich, full, interesting life that is not fixated on finding a sexual partner will make you attractive to those who are not shy about approaching you. Some of these will be white guys. This will place you in the enviable position of being able to choose. There are beautiful men of every race just waiting to love you.
Cheers mate
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Because of the atmosphere of narrow-mindedness and fear inherent in the societies into which they are born, Gaymen have often found it necessary to leave home in search of other communities where they can feel accepted and loved. Naturally they gravitate towards cities and by doing so they greatly increase their chances of finding an appropriate partner.
Many men are attracted to others of different ethnicity; there is a strong erotic charge in making love with a man whose physical characteristics and cultural background are markedly different from your own. However, you need to be aware of the risk of making a fetish of the other guys skin colour. Sometimes you fixate so strongly on your feverish, clichèd eroticisation of his race, that you stop seeing his individuality and, ultimately, this leads to a sterile relationship; you haven’t left enough room for love to grow.
Focusing on your love-life from the perspective of lack or insufficiency will not help the lover you desire manifest in your life. Neediness is not attractive, and since you are naturally shy it is possibly not a good look when you have to make all the running yourself. You show a good awareness of your own positive qualities, so commit some energy to developing these and to pursuing other areas of interest in your life. Living a rich, full, interesting life that is not fixated on finding a sexual partner will make you attractive to those who are not shy about approaching you. Some of these will be white guys. This will place you in the enviable position of being able to choose. There are beautiful men of every race just waiting to love you.
Cheers mate
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