spreadeagle
February 29th, 2004, 03:19 PM
G'day mate,
You're taking time away from your boyfriend, he's wondering why, and yet you think he doesn't know you've lost interest in him sexually? Get real!
Not only have you found yourself unable to commit to the relationship, but you're unable to commit to the terms of the separation since you've immediately started seeing another guy. On the one hand you have your boyfriend who is sensitive, loving and committed; you say you love him. On the other hand you have a guy who is smart, nice and cute. You may think you're discreet but there are others who'll be delighted to tell your boyfriend about your attraction to his ex. Well - sometimes we abdicate responsibility and let our unconscious manipulate events for us.
Because you're young and inexperienced it's understandable that you're anxious about commitment and that's cool. However, there's a danger. Lust driven relationships are a real turn-on but it's easy to become addicted to the adrenaline rush - and before you know it you ARE a slut. There's a distant shore of sex that lies beyond what you've discovered so far, but you need your heart and mind to get there; 'smart and cute' won't last the distance.
Bon Voyage!
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You're taking time away from your boyfriend, he's wondering why, and yet you think he doesn't know you've lost interest in him sexually? Get real!
Not only have you found yourself unable to commit to the relationship, but you're unable to commit to the terms of the separation since you've immediately started seeing another guy. On the one hand you have your boyfriend who is sensitive, loving and committed; you say you love him. On the other hand you have a guy who is smart, nice and cute. You may think you're discreet but there are others who'll be delighted to tell your boyfriend about your attraction to his ex. Well - sometimes we abdicate responsibility and let our unconscious manipulate events for us.
Because you're young and inexperienced it's understandable that you're anxious about commitment and that's cool. However, there's a danger. Lust driven relationships are a real turn-on but it's easy to become addicted to the adrenaline rush - and before you know it you ARE a slut. There's a distant shore of sex that lies beyond what you've discovered so far, but you need your heart and mind to get there; 'smart and cute' won't last the distance.
Bon Voyage!
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