spreadeagle
February 22nd, 2004, 03:59 AM
Wake up! This is not a healthy relationship!
First warning sign! The player reputation and the multiplicity of ex-girlfriends and ex-boyfriends. Here is a guy who has demonstrated at 38 that he is unable to sustain, or is uninterested in sustaining, a long-term relationship.
Second warning sign! He chooses younger partners. He refers to himself as ‘Daddy’. He positions himself as your teacher and judges your behaviour as acceptable or unacceptable. He has a unilaterally predetermined idea of the direction your relationship should take and he is angry when you try to suggest an alternative. This guy is a control freak.
Third warning sign! He calls you names, shouts at you, and tries to make you feel guilty after he has hurt you sexually. This is physical and mental cruelty and would constitute grounds for divorce in any courtroom. This man does not love you!
Why are you so anxious to jettison the positive aspects of your own culture? You have shown commendable caution in maintaining your financial independence and in taking three months to consider your options before moving in with him. Acquiring the habit of ‘social drinking’ is not something you need be grateful for.
Don’t undervalue yourself. He is treating you dishonourably. You deserve better than this. Thirteen Christmas presents doesn’t mean he loves you, it means he sees human relationships as commercial transactions and now he thinks you ‘owe’ him. Take the initiative and get out before he damages you further and trades you in for a younger model.
If you doubt the validity of my analysis you can easily check it out. In bed tonight tell him you’re going to fuck him and watch how he reacts.
First warning sign! The player reputation and the multiplicity of ex-girlfriends and ex-boyfriends. Here is a guy who has demonstrated at 38 that he is unable to sustain, or is uninterested in sustaining, a long-term relationship.
Second warning sign! He chooses younger partners. He refers to himself as ‘Daddy’. He positions himself as your teacher and judges your behaviour as acceptable or unacceptable. He has a unilaterally predetermined idea of the direction your relationship should take and he is angry when you try to suggest an alternative. This guy is a control freak.
Third warning sign! He calls you names, shouts at you, and tries to make you feel guilty after he has hurt you sexually. This is physical and mental cruelty and would constitute grounds for divorce in any courtroom. This man does not love you!
Why are you so anxious to jettison the positive aspects of your own culture? You have shown commendable caution in maintaining your financial independence and in taking three months to consider your options before moving in with him. Acquiring the habit of ‘social drinking’ is not something you need be grateful for.
Don’t undervalue yourself. He is treating you dishonourably. You deserve better than this. Thirteen Christmas presents doesn’t mean he loves you, it means he sees human relationships as commercial transactions and now he thinks you ‘owe’ him. Take the initiative and get out before he damages you further and trades you in for a younger model.
If you doubt the validity of my analysis you can easily check it out. In bed tonight tell him you’re going to fuck him and watch how he reacts.