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March 26th, 2006, 06:15 PM
I was in a similar situation when I was a teenager, where as I had hooked up with a older guy who I found out later, had videotaped what we did without my knowledge. He tried that same kind of crap, of saying he was going to show my family the tape if I didn't continue having sex with him. The thing is, my father is a preacher, and I knew this would do nothing but bring shame and humliation on him and my entire family. So I agreed to continued continue having sex, but I ultimately couldn't take it anymore. He had started bringing other men into the situation, and I wasn't about to have sex with anyone I didn't know. So when I got tired of being sick and tired of the situation, I just ran away from the situation. I left my family and friends behind. I didn't look back. After almost a year on the streets, my parents found me. I was finally able to tell them why I ran away, and the guy was prosecuted. I was not the only teenager he had done this to. My advice to you is, to stand up to the creep. Call his bluff. Get the authorities involved. What he is doing is wrong, and he knows it. If I had, I wouldn't have been tormented so much that I had to run away. Your family may or may not accept your lifestyle, but you can be assured that you didn't allow anyone to rule your life, making life more difficult than it has to be. By the way, after a few years, my father and entire family has accepted my lifestyle. He may not agree with how I live, but he respects the fact that I am sharing it with only one partner and happy.