The love of your life

[pride7]

How important is it/was it for you to find the "love of your life"? Do you think this exists? Or is it just something we were brought up to think existed?

[Unregistered]

It's a crock. Commitment relationships are frauds. Sooner or later, one or both are either actively playing around, trying to, or would if they could get away with it.

[troyboy4u]

Nothing says that being gay is easy, however I guess I was fortunate. I found the love of my life and we had 3 wonderful years together. His name was Steven. However, he has passed, there is not a day that goes by that I don't think about him. I believe there is someone out there for every one.
If you allow it to happen, its not easy though. Any relationship takes work, and time and patients. Most of the time we want instant gratification, and we have sex, and when we do this we get tired of each other and move on. Gay sex is not only fun and exciting, but it feels wonderful being with the guy that you love. How ever it is only part of a relationship not all of it. Sharing and trusting be there for your special one, listening. Letting this person know that he is everything to you. I am looking again and I have not given up, although there are people out there that are not right, but I have found if you just let it happen and are not forceful, trying to find whom ever that you are attracted to you, it will happen when you least expect it to. It sounds if you had some bad sittiuation, or may-be a few. However, were gay, and it is hard to find it, but if you want love and something real. Its out there don't give up. Cause we all deserve to be loved.

Peace

[redrat]

To a certain extent the love of your life is there but sometimes the notion is taken too far to the extent that you dont really see the special people around hoping to find this idealogy - an unatinable ideal .
No one is perfect and at times a bit of work has to be put into making a relationship work - within limits.