Yes I want to have kids someday...

[Unregistered]

I really would like the experience of being a father. Being the youngest boy of four brothers and with three sisters, I do know the importance of the family
structure. The fact That I am gay has no bearing on my want children. All of my siblings have children, and I have played a major part in each and every one of my nieces nad nephews lives. I feel as though I am already a father in some ways. From financial to emotional support I have always been, and will continue to there for them. Only time will tell if true fatherhood is in my future. Be it be by surrogacy or adoption, I am hoping one day it to become true.

[bluefin]

hii
my best wishes to you
one day you will become a proud father and take care of it as you have done to your other siblings
u have a very good practice in hand and years of experience of taking care of the child
god bless you

[princess nickie]

Hi There... I am in the same boat, that one day i would like to become a daddy. Why? because there are so many emotions, responsibilities, rewards, and it is an honour to raise a child. Just because im gay shouldnt mean i should be deprived of this experience. My only thing is, i would consider fatherhood after going out with a guy for a good couple of years and had a committmenet ceremony, if by the time im 27 and single, i will go into fatherhood alone, as a single gay man, and i would like the mother to be around, or some female role model (even if i were in a relationship) and i would cut down on my sexual urges. being a father, i wouldnt want my child being witness to the many partner or sex partners a gay man can have. i would rater it be one, for the long term, or a couple once every blue moon.

There have been many times when i have gone down to the department store and got clucky over the amount of baby things they have. especially when one of my ex's and i were going out. we actually put thought into surrogacy, but when he was diagnosed with depression, our relationship started to crumble.

So many things come to mind, when it comes to babies.
Ideally i would like to do it the surrogacy way, as i would like my baby to have some resemblence to me.

thanks, nick

[Unregistered]

I am a 27 yr. old, single, gay father. It is by far the most rewarding thing in my life. There is so much responsibility and I had to grow up very fast. My daughter is 6 yrs. old and it just makes my day knowing that I get to have dinner, watch tv, read books, park, etc. etc. etc... Her mother and I are very close and I believe that is important for her well being as she grows up. I have dated a few guys and a couple times, me having a child is what ultimately split us up... But I look at it this way --- if you can't accept my daughter, then you don't accept me. I just want to wish all of you good luck. It is stressful at times, but very very rewarding. :-)