Poll comments: Ok to hit on straights?

[pride7]

Ok to hit on straights?

Is it ok to hit on someone even though you already know that person is straight? Or should we keep our eyes/hands/flirt for other gays/bis?

[Unregistered]

If you are hot yourself, you will feel a vibe from straight guys all your life.
I don't like the gay life and most all of my relationships are physical and I find it easier to get it on with a "straight" guy than a gay one...jocks...basketball and racquetball....NEVER a gym freak with a good body and an ugly face
I have mostly straight friends and some know my story and that I am not interested in a "relationship"....sort of the same attitude George Clooney, who I think is basically gay...I always say I never want to get married.
You don't think he has all those jocks around him if he isn't getting laid, do you? Wrong. I would bet he is more than comforting Brad Pitt and he did three films in a row with Mark Wahlberg...at his own request.He has this incredible house on Lake Como in Italy...no press can see his goings on. If you ever have worked on a film, you end up having relationships with the MOST straight guys....grips, drivers on a long shoot. There is a lot of pretending nothing happened, but that is okay with me. Most guys are available...just timing and patience and don't come on strong.

[Unregistered]

Why not? What sets them, or anyone else, apart? They should know how to say "no" and we should know how to respect that.

[2hot4u]

Half the guys I've been with have been so-called "straights". A couple of them I even fooled around with before their girlfriends came back home.

There are so many hot guys around the world, and especially in LA, and many of them sleep with anything that moves. Is it our job to make sure they don't do anything to embarrass themselves? Should we say no if they're hot and believe you are a good career move? Hell no! Just flow with it and have the time of your life!

[spreadeagle]

Hi Guys,
If you KNOW the man is str8 then hitting on him is futile.The coments above sketch scenarios where the person's str8ness is doubtful. Though this raises the interesting question: is our sexual identity self-defined or do others determine whether we are gay, str8, whatever? If you get off with him then by definition he cannot be str8. Perhaps you have a different definition!

My view is that it depends. You should never hit on anyone inappropriate - this includes those who are legally underage or those you know to be currently in an ongoing relationship. Doing so merely signals your low self-esteem and a lack of any integrity or moral code.

Having said that, I think it's perfectly ok to try and clarify another guys level of interest in getting it on with you if you have reason to believe that your feelings might be reciprocated.The first approach should always be verbal and phrased in a way that is likely to flatter and intrigue rather than cause offence; you're after a hot shot of cum rather than a smack in the face.

Straights have ruled the roost for far too long and have fucked up majorly. Every time a self-proclaimed straight shoots his load with a guy it's another nail in the coffin of homophobia.
Cheers Queers
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[GalacticHawk]

Straight men don’t have a desire to have sex with men. All the wishful thinking of gays will not change that. Think of it in reverse: Do gay men have the desire to have sex with women? For most gay men the idea of fondling a vagina is repulsive. Why not accept that straight men have the same repulsion regarding sex with men? To accept it shows respect for their sexual orientation. To ignore it is rude. Gay men are seeking respect from the community. Why not show some, too?