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spreadeagle
January 23rd, 2005, 12:34 AM
Hey mate,

We all get horny when we see an A#1 spunk, but as Max suggests, definitions of what is hot and what is not differ from person to person. So far so normal. What strikes me as a little weird is when you let it drive you crazy.

I notice that you capitalize Skinny guy and Buffy Well Built Dude as if these are fixed categories. And maybe you’re completely happy with your physical self just the way you are – that’s cool. But the fact is that most people form relationships with others that they unconsciously rate close to their own position on their personal scale of physical attractiveness. Therefore if you want to stop sneaking sideways glances at hot bods from the sidelines and clicking mental snapshots to replay for your flying-fisted stiff-dicked nocturnal jack-fests, then why not consider transforming yourself from Skinny to Buff? By raising the stakes you can get hands-on with those Well Built Dudes for real; if you can’t beat them off, join them!

The gym route’s a familiar one and well-documented. Aside from the obvious personal benefits of improved health, fitness and appearance, you’ll be in the company of the men you admire. If you put in the effort and are keen to learn, most of these guys will offer their respect and assistance. We all enjoy a little flattery: hell – before long it’ll be shoulder rubs and shared workouts on their Swiss balls! But even if you choose the ‘look but don’t touch’ approach the proximity of the locker room eye candy should keep you cumming back for more.

Cheers
Spread

Unregistered
January 23rd, 2005, 12:37 PM
I am a muscular guy and have a small partner---5'8 125lbs and I love every inch of him---trust me there are lot`s of us out there---rich

Skinny
January 23rd, 2005, 11:38 PM
Im just like your partner who's 5' 8'' and 125 lbs. Im 5ft 10 and 135 and most dudes I been with are my height or a litle taller but are anywhere from 25 to 50 lbs heavier and I love feeling there body on topof me and feeling their superior strength. It's a real turn on for me and also I agree there are a lot of us like you and me out there. By the way, what are your ststs, Curious, mmmmmmmmmm

Skinny
January 23rd, 2005, 11:50 PM
hey spread,
I guess we are all different. You say most guys are attracted to other guys who are physicially like them. I meet a lot of dudes like me who are skinny and love buffy built dudes and also Built Dudes who like skinny guys like me. Yes, I like the way I am, Skinny and I also workout, swim, and play Ball alot. I guess that's what makes the world go round Mate! Skinny Bobby!

spreadeagle
January 24th, 2005, 01:47 AM
Hey Bobby

Perhaps I didn't express myself very clearly. The study I referred to was maybe a little simplistic but as far as I can recall it went like this:
People were asked to rate their own looks on a 1-10 scale. Their self-assessment was cross-checked by including their photos in a selection of photos that others were asked to rate into a hierarchy of good looks. They were then asked to choose the photo of the person that they felt they could most likely have a relationship with. They consistently chose people who rated at the same level on the scale as they had been rated by themselves and others.

I guess there's a hierarchy in skininess too - from lean, through skinny,to anorexic. Since it's summer here in NZ right now it's impossible not to notice how young guys physiques have changed over the years. The look now is tall, rangey, gangly, tangled black hair with smooth pale skin. The general effect is one-dimensional with the shoulders looking like they've been cut out of white cardboard - sort of vampire chic I guess. Well, we're all more melanoma-conscious down here these days- that would definitely not a be good look.

I love diversity, Bobby. Stay well, mate.
Spread

Skinny
January 24th, 2005, 08:17 AM
Hey Spread,
Glad it's Summer for you down there as it is 0 degrees weather up here in The North East Coast of the USA. Im impressed in what you say and notice. you seem well informed. Yes Im on the Skinny Side but not anorexic thank God. At 5' 10' and 135 lbs Im on the Skinny Side but Solid. Some of the Dudes you discribe on the Beach down there sound real Scarey looking, LOL! The weather up here right now is Perfect for a nice Buffy Dude to Keep this Skinny Guy Warm! Stay Warm Guy and enjoy your Summer! Bobby
PS-Im also attraced to Guys like me also!