spreadeagle
August 24th, 2004, 07:06 AM
G’day mate
You know the saying about your eyes being bigger than your stomach? Well, the same applies to your asshole.
Wise up! If it hurts bad then you are not ‘playing’. Playing is fun and makes you feel good – it doesn’t make you hurt for eight hours afterwards. If you want to continue doing it that’s great, but you need to change your approach. There are no prizes for ramming the biggest dildo you can find up there. Use lubricant. Be gentle on yourself and ease it up. Don’t let your excitement make you tense. Keep breathing, relax and take your time.
After a few sessions of easy play if your asshole is enjoying it, cool. If not, always remember that anal is not compulsory. If you find it really hot with your small dildo, then my question to you is: “Do you need to go any bigger?” If you feel you need to, then ask yourself, “Why?” The answer to that question could teach you a lot about yourself.
Kegel Exercises are effective in toning your sphincter muscles (ass rings) and you can find out how to do them from Google. But the more humungous your dildo, the more your ring has to stretch to accommodate it, and the more you need to exercise to get it to snap back tight. Skid-marks are not a good look.
Keep exploring buddy, you sound hot,
Cheers
Spread
You know the saying about your eyes being bigger than your stomach? Well, the same applies to your asshole.
Wise up! If it hurts bad then you are not ‘playing’. Playing is fun and makes you feel good – it doesn’t make you hurt for eight hours afterwards. If you want to continue doing it that’s great, but you need to change your approach. There are no prizes for ramming the biggest dildo you can find up there. Use lubricant. Be gentle on yourself and ease it up. Don’t let your excitement make you tense. Keep breathing, relax and take your time.
After a few sessions of easy play if your asshole is enjoying it, cool. If not, always remember that anal is not compulsory. If you find it really hot with your small dildo, then my question to you is: “Do you need to go any bigger?” If you feel you need to, then ask yourself, “Why?” The answer to that question could teach you a lot about yourself.
Kegel Exercises are effective in toning your sphincter muscles (ass rings) and you can find out how to do them from Google. But the more humungous your dildo, the more your ring has to stretch to accommodate it, and the more you need to exercise to get it to snap back tight. Skid-marks are not a good look.
Keep exploring buddy, you sound hot,
Cheers
Spread