I have a situation at work. I have fallen in love with my co-worker. The problem is he still lives with his ex-boyfriend. He told me he is still in love with him even though hi ex sleeps around, and doesn't love him no more. And the second thing is he has AIDS. I am negative, and him having aids doesn't bother me. Because I am very well aware of how to be safe with someone with aids.

What bothers me is that when we are spending time together, all he seems to talk about is how his ex is doing this, and that. And how he wishes he would move out. He even asked me if I wanted to be his roommate. But then he starts telling me how many good times they had together, how much he still loves him even though he was always unfaithful to him. I don't know if I should tell him I really care for him while at the same time he is telling me that he is still in love with his ex. Thank you very much. Sincerely, "R" from Cape Coral, Florida.