Reader's Q:

I'm 22 and am looking for a boyfriend, but I always seem to end up alone and forgotten by the end of the night. I have tried being social, but not slutty. I've tried laughing at jokes that aren't funny. I've tried wearing clothes that show off my body, which is pretty toned. I've tried scooping the room for guys who are making eye contact with me, but they always look away once they notice me looking right back at 'them. When I ask guys to dance, they, shyly, turn me down. The only guys who approached me are ALWAYS drunk. What's wrong with me? What am I doing wrong? What should I be doing? Thanks! Wichita, KS_BOI.