Coming Out: Boldly Going Where Few Have
Gone Before
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Openly gay and lesbian celebrities serve as ambassadors
to the straight world. The more people who come out, the more chances
there are that someone will relate to at least one of them -- something
that could make a difference in how they think about gay rights. It's
great that Ellen DeGeneres and Melissa Etheridge are out, but while
Ellen's everyman humor and Melissa's recent victory over breast cancer
have made each of them more relatable to many, not everyone can identify
with these women. As Sheryl Swoopes said in her interview, "...I was
trying to figure out what gay African-American woman has come out and can
represent the gay African-American community. And I can't really think of
one."
Likewise, there are very few out Asian-Americans. George Takei joins a
very short list consisting of actors BD Wong and Alec Mapa. We need more
closeted celebrities to come out in every field -- actors, musicians,
politicians, athletes -- and of every race.
Of course, celebrities aren't the only ambassadors, and they shouldn't be
expected to shoulder the entire burden. While it's great when someone
famous reveals that they are gay, oftentimes, knowing someone personally
will make an even bigger impact. It's one thing to deny Rosie, Ellen, or
George Takei the right to get married, it's something else entirely when
it's your best friend, coworker, or relative.
Maybe one day the sexuality of celebrities really won't be an issue. Maybe
stars won't have to come out because they'll never have been in the closet
in the first place. Maybe it really won't matter what gender they love.
That is what we're all working for, after all. Unfortunately, we're not
there yet -- as the fact that Congress is once again considering an
anti-gay federal marriage amendment proves.
In the meantime, we welcome Sheryl Swoopes and George Takei with open
arms, thank them for having the courage to do what so many fear, and we
will keep fighting for the rights that we are unjustly denied. We will
continue our mission to change the world, to seek equal lives and better
civilizations, to boldly go where few have gone before...
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