Hey max; I'm in a relationship with a much younger man. Here's the problem I've found that things I thought were cute & funny a year ago are annoying and make me want to scream. I think he does love me but we don't connect on very many levels. I'm a computer guy, he calls it "the space modulator", he is into cartoon's and obsessed with Link, cloud and other anime type characters (to the point of wanting to get surgery to look like them). In the past year we have had to have him hospitalized once for an attempted suicide (was an involuntary admission to the hospital). I'm afraid that if I break it off with him he will do harm to himself. What is your advice?

 

If he is that bad, you should really seek the advise of a professional counselor to see how you can deal with your situation.    I would normally advice you to talk to him and try to resolve the situation that is making you unhappy and if that does not work, move on. However, on this situation, you are dealing with someone with emotional problems so you need to be careful with him.  Professional help will be best for you.  Good luck! Here are some information and links for suicide hotline that may help you. Good luck! USA National Suicide Hotlines Toll-Free / 24 hours / 7 days a week 1-800-SUICIDE 1-800-784-2433 1-800-273-TALK 1-800-273-8255 TTY: 1-800-799-4TTY (4889)   http://www.suicidehotlines.com/ http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/