Hey max-- I have a boyfriend, we've been dating for about a year now. We both love each other, and we're definitely not ready to have sex, but sometimes I get the feeling he doesn't want to touch me b/c he thinks I have an STD.  No one has the money for me to get tested. I am scared if I do have an STD, he will never want to have sex with, or touch me b/c of it. I live with him, and this is hurtful. what do I do?

 

There are free clinics all over the United States.  Here is a link so you can find the closest one to you. http://yourstdhelp.com/free_clinic_locator.html You don't have to be afraid of not having money and having STD. There are plenty of free clinics that will help you. All you have to do is ask.  In regards to your boyfriend.  Communication is the key.  Tell him how you feel about the whole situation and come up with a plan to resolve this issue that is hurting you.  Good luck!