I have been going out with my boyfriend for six months. My problem is that he lives with 2 people that he works with and he does not want them to know he is gay. We constantly have to sneak around. There are days I cannot see him because he does not want to take the risk of them finding out he is gay. This had really started to get me down. Any advice?

 

You either love him the way he is or find another boyfriend who is out of the closet.   Listen to your gut feeling.  If you are not happy with this situation, talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he does not want to work things out, you may want to get out now that you have not invested so much time in your relationship.   It has been my experience that the person waiting for someone to change usually always gets hurt. Why?  because once the person changes, they usually end up meeting someone else.