I've been sneaking around with my roommate's (female) boyfriend, for the past six months. It started one night after they had a fight, and he and I kind of hooked up. I was shocked that he was into guys myself. Hey, I already know it's wrong. I have been hard enough on myself about it, so I would appreciate not getting the lecture of my loose morals. The thing is, I have been trying to stop the affair, but he, my roommate's boyfriend, insist that we continue.   Every time he comes by when she's not home and wants sex, I put up my best defense to stop it, but he has overpowered me a couple of times. Now I just let him have his way. Granted the sex is hella-hot. But I feel so guilty about what I am doing, that I can't stand to be around my roommate anymore. She is a good and loyal friend, whom I love dearly. She doesn't suspect a thing, and I know it will tear her apart when she finds out. And find she must. I know I will be risking our relationship by coming clean about the affair, but I have no other choice. So my question to you is, is there an easy way to tell my roommate that I have been sexing up her boyfriend when she's not at home? Or should I just do as her boyfriend says, and shut up and take like a man? Any help would be appreciated. Thanks

 

There's no easy way to confess to her that you have been stabbing her in the back.  No matter how nice you put it, your friendship will be over.   Hopefully, you will learn from this experience and will learn to put friends before someone's dick. If you continue like this, you will end up being alone and very very sad.  So wake up and smell the roses... Life is not all about sex!  You will learn your lesson at some point when you are mature enough to understand the value of a friendship.  The great thing is that you know you are stubbing your friend in the back and you feel guilty.  To change this behavior,  you may want to try to put yourself in the other person's shoes. Don't do what you don't want others to do to you. Unfortunately for you, what goes around comes around. So get ready for your payback.  Good luck and I hope you will learn the value of friendship and change for the best.