Dear Max, I am so ready to live alone. It seems like I will never find that special someone. I have a lot to share with. I am not looking for the best looking guy, but all I see in the ads are barflies and gym rats, though I personally have nothing against them. I am looking for somebody with the right attitude and a purpose in life. Does anybody in this category still exist or am I doomed?

 

You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find prince charming.  There's a lot of good quality guys out there but they are mixed with the wrong crowd. Sometimes it is hard to tell them apart.  What you need to do is going out of your comfort zone. Try asking some men out that you would not usually go out with.  You may be missing some good guys who do not qualify your profile of the perfect partner.  Don't give up! There are a lot of good guys out there.  Meanwhile,  enjoy being yourself and enjoy life.  Sooner or later he will come along.  Don't be surprised if he turns out to be the opposite of everything you ever wanted. Good luck!