I have a problem, I'm in a very
confused situation. I have been engaged to a woman for about 4 years and
all my life I've been ignoring the signs that I was attracted to men.
Now, my attraction to men is strong but I am still attracted to women
but not as much. The thing is I don't have the courage or the heart to
break my fiancιe's heart. I do want to experience sexual
intercourse with another men. Sometime I'll have dreams about having sex
with other men and they feel so realistic and when I wake up I have this
urge to have sex with a man. I know that I'm the one who has to make the
decision but a bit of help would be appreciated. thanx.
If you don't have the heart to tell her, at least
have the balls to be honest with her. She deserves someone who
is going to love her and be faithful to her. What you are doing is
keeping her from meeting the right man for her. You may break
her heart and she may cry at the beginning, but when she realizes
you were honest to her out of love, she will thank you forever.