I love my boyfriend very much, and I enjoy having sex with him, but it's not always great. There are times that he's not completely clean and the sex is "messy." This totally turns me off, and he gets really embarrassed. What should we do to make sure we are "clean" before having sex?

 

There are some way to clean yourself before having anal sex.  You can use a vaginal douche product. They are available over-the-counter in any drug store. You can also use your finger in the shower to rinse the inside as much as possible.   However, there is always going to be a risk of some messy sex since it is the anal cavity. But if you do any of the above, you will reduce the changes of messy sex and the embarrassment that this causes. Good luck and remember to always wear a Condom.