Dear max, I am 32yrs. and single. I live in India. I met one guy thru the internet. I am a bottom & he is a top. He is married and has two children. We had sex in our first meeting. We like both each-other a lot. We talk by phone three days a week. He lives 500 km from my city.  We have met only one time during a two year period. He says he loves me a lot, but he cannot meet me mainly because of his family and work.  Sometimes I meet guys & have sex  but I haven't found someone who shares his feeling with me.  In India most of the guys are bi, so they like men for sex only and because of culture and family, they stay with their wives. I do not want to stay alone. People ask me why are you alone?  I am frustrated. I have no idea what to do.  I cannot move to the United States because I do not have a high education.  Please tell me what to do. How can I find that special one?

 

It is very hard in some places for a gay man to find that special one.  India is one of them. All you can do is keep searching and looking.  Go to the gyms, restaurants, shopping centers.  Try to find out where gay people go.  Place as many ads on the net as possible. The more exposure you get the better.  Do not give up. That special person is around the corner for you. Bi guys will never give you what you need.  You need to find someone who is really gay and who wants to have a future with you and only you.  If you can't find that person in India, start working for a future somewhere else.  You can start by traveling to places where there are gay people. If you can't right now, make it a goal so you can start working towards that specific goal.  Good luck!