Hi Max, I am bisexual and have just met a friend who I think is gay. Should I just come out and ask him for sex? I have tried to get with him but nothing is working. I am very masculine and think he might be afraid to approach me, if he only knew, what's your advice?

 

Just because he is gay it does not mean he is automatically attracted to you.  You sound very sure of yourself when you say he might be afraid to approach you because you are very masculine. Are you sure about that?  Maybe he is avoiding you because you are not his type.  Whatever the case may be, you will not know until you ask him out. All you have to do is to make sure you make it clear it is a date.  That way if he says yes, you will know he is into you.  Good luck!