I have been married for two years, but she does not know that gay guys turn me on. I don't know if it is curious or what. I like gay magazines and videos over str8 one's. And what scares me is when we have sex I have to think of guys to get off. Does this mean I am gay? I have never been with a guy.

 

You are definitely attracted to men. The question you need to ask yourself is are you sexually attracted to women? if you are, then you are bisexual.  If you are not sexually attracted to women, then you are gay.  Gay means you only like  having sex with the same sex.  Since you are the only one who can answer all the questions, it is up to you to decide who you are.  Either way, you are still you no matter what you like. So love and accept yourself the way you are and enjoy life. Good luck!