I am a gay male. I have a partner and we have had anal sex (myself receiving) several times. Each time it hurts at first, but it stops hurting after a few seconds. However, it becomes very painful after about 5 minutes. So painful that I have to ask my partner to take his penis out. My partner does have a rather large penis, but this has also happened with a previous partner who did not have a large penis. I do enjoy receiving anal sex before it starts hurting but it is no longer enjoyable after the pain starts. Is there anything that I can do to make receiving anal sex more pleasurable? I really care about my partner and I fear that this will eventually hurt our relationship. Thanks!

 

Sounds like you could have hemorrhoids.  It is very common and treatable. However, I am not a doctor. Please have your doctor check your anal cavity to make sure you don't have hemorrhoids or warts.  If you do, he will prescribe a cream to treat it. Good luck!