How can you make a man that you like understand that you are not really after anything messy like sex, but really, you just want a serious relationship even without sex. You see, I live in such a conservative society that people like us are not fully accepted. Some guys can learn to love people like us if only two guys loving each other isn't so against the norms.

 

Usually sex comes with loving someone. So it will be hard for some guys to accept that a gay guy can love them without wanting anything in return. We all want someone we can love and someone we can count on in the good times and bad times.  We also want someone who we can hug, kiss and feel alive.   If you think you like someone and do not want sex in return, just tell him how you feel. Honesty is usually the best thing.  If you can't be honest in your society, move to a society that will accept you the way you are.  Remember, it is your life.  You are in charge of your destiny and your happiness.