Hi Max, I have this really cute friend and we have always been very close. But over the last year he has become just the hottest person you could imagine. He is everything you would want in a man. Anyway, one night we ended up getting really close and we kissed. Later on that night he asked me if I was gay ( which I am ) and I said no because I thought if I said yes it could damage our friendship. So then I asked him and he said no. I was wondering if I was honest and said yes, do you think he might of said yes?  There has been lots of clues that he is gay I just can't be sure. Thanks for the Help.

 

Actions speak louder than words. You ended up kissing.  Straight guys don't do that.  You have a right to know why he kissed you.  So at this point you have two choices: 1) Ask him why he kissed you and tell him you are gay and wait to see what he says.   or 2) Forget about it and keep hanging out with him. Good luck!