There is this problem I want to fix. I don't know if I'm gay or if I'm straight. But in my life, I haven't had sex with anyone. I am a virgin. I'm worried to the fact of what I may be. I don't know what I am. But what I do know is that I like women's body, but I never get  turn on. I don't get turn on by guys either.  My best friend is the only one that turns me on when he wrestles with me. He gets me a hard on...but only him.  I like to see girls and talk to them more.  Could I be gay or straight? even though I haven't had sex with anyone.  Is there something going on in my body that does this or what can it be? I really don't want to be gay but I want to know what I can do to find out and what can I do to stop it if I turn out to be gay. thank you max.

 

It sounds like you are still young and since you really haven't had any sexual experiences, then it may be hard to know who you really like sexually.  Just because you get hard when you are wrestling, it does not make you gay.  Guys are horny by nature and any rubbing will get them hard.   As you grow older, you will find out what sex you prefer.  Some people may need to try having sex with men and women to know which one they do enjoy best. You may be one of them.   Once you have sex, you will know.   If you turn out to be gay, the only thing you can do is to either accept being who you really are  or pretend you are something you're not.