I really really need your help.  Recently I had sex with my partner 4 the first time and it was great. But all of a sudden, my erection went soft and I couldn't continue. At the time, I thought nothing of it. We were going to have sex again yesterday but I couldn't get a full erection. I then masturbated afterwards and I still couldn't get fully hard, I can get an erection just not hard enough to have sex,  please help me. I am starting to get very worried!  From: Getting Soft

 

Sometimes that happens and it is okay. It could be that you were not fully excited. You may love your partner but you may not be really into him or he may make you too nervous.  Just keep trying and keep track of your erections.  If after a few weeks you think you cannot get a full erection, seek the advise of a doctor just to make sure everything is okay.  He may be able to prescribe something that will make you relax and horny at the same time.  But I am guessing is probably the chemistry between you and your partner. He is probably not touching the right buttons. So tell him what they are and see what happens.